13 thoughts on “HELP,I HATE MYSELF! A GUIDE TO DEALING WITH INSECURITIES IN 2020

    1. You are welcome Jenny. Self love is a life long journey so don’t get discouraged if you face challenges along your journey. Thank you so much for stopping by my blog. ❤

  1. Self hate and inferiority complex I’ve been through. I remember particularly disliking myself cos I was small in stature and was always thinking in absolutes. But Hey! I’m beautiful, smart and though small, very mighty😂. This was all I fed myself with till I could get over it.
    Speak positive things to you, eventually they’ll manifest.

    1. Lol,you are perfect the way you are. My colleagues in school used to call me ‘Miss Portable'( I’m doing a t-shirt for it soon to encourage women who feel intimidated by their body type) and it stuck to my head. Positive words are seeds and the more you keep speaking them,the more they grow into big trees of self love and confidence. Thanks for reading!

      1. I Remember vividly when I felt insecure because people kept saying I’m skinny and that made me over conscious of myself just so I won’t wear stuffz that will show how slim I was but on a second thought after speaking to myself I literally decided to close my ears to everything people said and love my self wholly 😁 because I know I will gain weight soonest. 😄

        1. I’ve come to understand that people will always talk no matter how fat or slim you are,they will always find something to say about your body or how you look. It is your job and responsibility to let these comments affect you or trash them. Cheers to gaining weight in all the right places lol.

  2. I really enjoyed reading this and it made me think back. People always used the size of my eye balls (one of my favourite features now) to make me feel bad. I wasn’t pointed out as ugly but I knew I wasn’t the prettiest girl in the room. I used to get validation from the fact that boys still liked me and all but right now, I’ve grown to love myself enough that whether there a boys or not, I’m madly in love with myself and confident in how I look

    1. Hey Firi! Wow,the things people joke with that cause others to feel bad about themselves are numerous! I was bullied about my eyes too. I’m glad we have overcome and are moving swiftly in this journey of confidence and self love. Thanks for reading!

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